I quickly came to terms with the death of my mother, she was a frail lady in her late 80s. When she fell twice in as many days, I came to realise the end was very close.
I shall come to terms with the debts I ended up having to arrange the funeral, when my O/D is cleared in four months time.
One of the things I will NEVER come to terms with is why I gave £1,000 to my lazy, abusive stepson, who spent the last 25 years foul-mouthing me. This act of kindness took away the last money I should have inherited, and for want?